Circle

Every relationship has a circle
In the beginning you fall in love with your partner, anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncraises.
But after a few months or years of being together, the europhia of love fades. Slowly but surely, phone calls become bother, touch is not always welcome, and your spouse's idosyncraises instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking "Whether I'm with the right person?" And as you reflect on the europhia of the love you once had, you might begin to desire that experience with someone elae. This is when the relationship break down.
So what is the key success of love?!?
It's not finding the right person, it's learning how to love the one you've found.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. But what will happen after two moths or years you guys being together?!?
Love is not passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort and energy. And most importantly, it demands wisdom. How to make it work, and bow to make no mistake.
Love is not mystery as well. There are specific things you can do just as there are physical laws of the universe, there are also laws for love.
Love, therefore is a decision, not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walk into your life. It's up to you to decide who you let walk away , who you let stay and who you refuse to let GO.